There’s been a lot of things happening in the last couple of days with, for and to #1 Son.
So on Tuesday evening there was his second parent teacher conference. Now I’m pleased to say that I didn’t approach this one with as much trepidation as his initial one back in November.
I knew that there had been some improvements, and that was in both social and academic areas. Of course there were still issues, but what Kindergartener won’t have those?
I also took up his three exercise books that we’ve been working through to show his teacher that we’ve been trying to do improvement work at home on more than just reading.
He has 180 Days of Kindergarten in:
The idea is that from the start of the academic year you do one page a day (I assume they mean workdays) and improve as the class and the year goes on. We only picked them up after the 100 days of school celebrations, but they are still worth doing.
I can’t say that he’s been totally thrilled with it but he does it with minimal fighting. Possibly because I mark it as we go along, and he likes to see how well he’s doing. He would do better if he just concentrated but neither me nor his father were particularly good at that either.
And when I say “do better” I mean the difference between getting 6 out of six and 5 out of six. He’s good at it really.
So our 20 minute conference time turned into nearly an hour but fortunately I was her last meeting of the day and apparently she is regularly in school until 6 PM as it is. The woman is a saint, have I mentioned this?
She talked me through his systems for taking breaks, how he concentrates (better than it has been, though there is obviously still room for improvement), and perhaps more interestingly the system she has devised for tracking his particular outbursts and what triggers them. Spoiler: there is no apparent pattern. Although the day when he has music as his “special” (Wednesday) seem to have more outbursts. This does make sense to me, as it’s a very noisy class and he gets overstimulated.
I also noted that he seems to work better in a classroom setting when he is buddied up with a female friend. And interestingly his teacher noted that he will play outside with his peers now and that when he does, it is normally with the boys! I think I don’t need to explain how absolutely ecstatic this information made me.
Don’t get me wrong, he does still have days when during recess he will just walk round and round in circles talking to himself. But that’s fewer and he’s playing with children his own age!
For the sake of brevity (and so that you, dear audience, do not die of boredom) I will skip over the academic stuff except to say that he is doing better and concentrating for longer. And I will now move to the most important part of the session where she told me something that made me literally dance around the classroom which was:
He is no longer the child causing her the most grief!!!
Okay so there is still the caveat of “for now” but let me have my moment in the sun here!!!!
They do want either myself or his dad to go with him to supervise in a couple of upcoming field trips, but I can’t really blame them on that.
All in all after the conversation I had with his therapist regarding playing with peers and her concern that he wasn’t, I left that meeting pretty much walking on air. One darn proud mama bear.
Then came Wednesday. Which was a pretty normal day. Except at about 11:30 I got a phone call from the school nurse. To tell me that my poor son had gotten into a fight with the playground. Not in the playground with another child oh no with the ground itself. And he lost. Except at about 1130 I got a phone call from the school nurse. To tell me that my poor son had gotten into a fight with the playground. Not in the playground with another child, oh no, with the ground itself. And he lost.
The top photos were taken just after he came home on Wednesday afternoon, and the bottom two were taken the next morning.
He still feeling very very sad and sorry for himself. I’m not surprised. It’s still sore and he still wants band aids on the grazes. I have no problem with this, as apart from anything else it helps prevent infection. He’s been talking about not wanting to play outside at recess and “keeping everybody safe”. Perhaps he will learn to look before he runs?
Honestly? I doubt it but it’s taught him a valuable lesson I think.
Today I went up to school for a Math Fun morning (!)
No really. The idea was that you would undertake different activities with your child and see what they have been learning.
He made me a chain link necklace – a rainbow necklace 💗
He needed to take a 5 minute break in the middle of the work, and when there was only 5 minutes left of the session because he had run out of steam. So with the second I decided to leave a little early, as by the time he was done with his break it would be time for the parents to leave anyway.
He handled that fine. Also I ought to note that it was extremely noisy in the classroom, and he didn’t have one outburst. I was so proud of him 💕
He also came home with this:
It is a “Rainbow Egg for keeping stuff in” 💗
And finally, it seems that due to the late March snow, the Ida, Always author needed to cancel her previously scheduled visit. So, she will return at some as-yet-to-be-determined time, and his copies of the books will be signed!
Spring Break is now upon us, so stand by for stories of trips to the park, ice cream and lots of shenanigans…
IT MIGHT HAPPEN
Oh, and one other lovely thing. When he was dropped off by the lovely A this afternoon she left as normal, and then came back to ask if she could take him to the local ice cream parlour that we also frequent – because her youngest daughter (Grade 5, so aged 11 or thereabouts) and her friends wanted him to come with them.
Okay I know that the therapist wouldn’t have been as pleased as I was, but I was thrilled that he was able to socialise like that in a public place.
I’m one very proud mummy tonight.
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Your hard work and patience will pay off big time. Keep at it…… it’s all going the right way!!! Well done all of you. Keep us posted on progress. Xxxxx
It is fantastic news, especially the socialising with kids of both sexes. Could he wear headphones when the class is doing a particularly noisy activity? Maybe loud noises does cause him physical pain.
How did things go with the grade 5 young ladies???
Can you get band aids with superheroes on them in the USA? If not, we’ll have to bring you some.
Have you received your stylish wedding invite yet? The ones sent to France have arrived.
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